Zaff visits me on a regular basis, and has been coming to London for bondage and fun monthly for the last months (see 1, 2 & 3).
Tied down 1
It is a pleasure to tie him up, as it is very obvious that he loves losing control in the ropes.
Tied down 2
He is not a fighter but seems to flow away when tied up.
Tied down 3
The thing I like about Zaff – as I like with a few of my BDSM friends is sharing and having mutual interests beyond the ropes.
Tied down 4
Amongst other: Zaff loves his garden and cooking, which in term are nice interests to share ideas and thoughts on.
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That way the connection goes beyond BDSM and the more sexual context.
Tied down 6
This is another important foundation which I prefer to have with the regular guys I meet.
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A basis that is founded on other interests as well.
Foot rest 1
However, this Blog is of course not the spot to talk about fun beyond BDSM.
Foot rest 2
Yet it is important for me to have this aspect too, as it ensures me depth and a more broad personal feeling of the guys I play regularly with.
Tied up for a walk
To me bondage, dominance and S/M is more of a lifestyle choice.
What he wore under his clothes.
A lifestyle – which isn’t limited in space or time or to strict protocols, a lifestyle – which gives me (and my BDSM friends) choices beyond the bedroom.
We went for a long walk
Sometimes a session lasts only one single roping.
After which his cock and balls were killing him
Sometimes a session can last a day.
Because he got a hard-on when reminded of the ropes
And at other times a session is from when a collar is locked on a neck until it goes off again.
A fact I used constantly
Either way what matters is the quality we get from it.
Strangely he didn’t complain about the anal hook!!….
Be it the intensity of tight bondage over half an hour – while being edged and not allowed to cum.
Ball play 1
Be it a weekend with bondage sessions, play and opportunities, to live out fantasies – or simply explore the lifestyle with others.
Ball play 2
As long as we feel richer from the session, that is the target and where it bottom line makes a difference to me as Master.
Damn hot without clothes…
I’m happy to consider Zaff my boi, from when he gets the collar on, to when I take it off before he leaves – that to me is quality.
Damn hot with clothes on.