This will not be a usual confession, as it isn’t about a bondage session I had, but about a lot of bondage sessions and the opportunities for having a lot more great sessions thanks to a very valued and to me important person – Bondicimo.
I have known Bondicimo (check his amazing bondage videos here) for a short time only, however, from when we first met last year it was very clear that we had a similar way of approaching BDSM and similar thoughts on how to approach play.
It was actually a good friend of mine M (see 1, 2, 3 and 4) who introduced me to Bondicimo. I first had the pleasure of meeting his sub Olaf (see Olaf – the Houdini of ropes) as he visited me in January before this Bondicimo and I wrote a bit together and afterwards later in the spring arranged to meet at his house in Calais.
Truthfully speaking I had never enjoyed playing along with other tops before, and was not sure how it would be. We spoke together a few times after which we set the dates. Needless to say the weekend went much much better than any of us had expected. We very fast found out that we had a similar mindset when it comes to BDSM and as the weekend came along, we explored teasing, playing with and at the core of it tying up subs that Bondicimo had invited.
It is a weekend that I will always treasure, for one because I was introduced to some great guys (see The first bondage session in Calais, Flint day 1) and later visits brought further horny and great guys (see French SUBmission, more guys to be posted), and secondly I felt as if I found a lost friend I had known a long time and as if things just continued. I think that Bondicimo is excellent in making guys feel welcomed. As a top of course I have different circumstances and don’t have to think of what he will do next – on the other hand I know that the guys visiting him enjoy this aspect – and after all this is why we meet.
I treasure his friendship and the friendship of his subs very highly – and am proud and happy to consider him my chosen BDSM brother.